Hi guys! I'm back. :)
First off, here's a shout-out to Rica, Kim and Lester, my 3 faithful readers. Naks!! Yes, 3 lang kayong readers ko. hahaha!!
It's been busy after busy here! Have had a succession of visitors, starting off in May with my paternal relatives, the Lingats, from North Luzon, closely followed by girlfriend Anna Banana.
Anna's vacation, of course, included grooving at St James Power Station with 2 other girlfriends despite protestations from my old, creaking body. It was my first time there and it's a great place to wiggle your bottie if you don't mind doing so while standing on the few square centimetres of space that it takes to plant your heeled feet. It's packed to the rafters, that place! But it was fun though. Towards the end of the gimmick, my feet were aching so much that I just had to slip off my black, patent leather stilletos and dance on bare feet. Haha!
After Anna, our family friend, the Cahoys from Iligan, arrived which meant another round of tour-guide duties at Sentosa and Esplanade. In the heat! :(
Then a little bundle of joy came a-visiting in June! A last-minute approved leave of my sis allowed her and my nephew Juancho to plane in, accompanied by my dad. Oh, what week that was! The tot was all over the house alternately playing with the light switches, the power switches, the used batteries that he unearthed from a cupboard, his toy cars and empty, plastic water bottles. And he ensured too that he made a stamp in every room by puke-ing at least once everywhere in the house. Hehe. Kids! Don't you just love them!
Then it was July and Kathy, another girlfriend, arrived. Just in time too before we left for a week in Hyderabad, India.
India!!! The people we met were lovely, so gracious and hospitable. I was fed vegetarian food, which was good, and I tell you, eating it everyday brought on deep, new, heart-felt realisations about myself such as: that in this lifetime, I am meant to be an omnivore and will never make it as a vegetarian. :)
I'm off to Manila next week for a week. Hope my timing is good and it isn't raining torrents there so I won't have to whip out my rubber boots and raincoat just to be able to get around the drenched metropolis.
Will post pix soon!
Friday, August 17, 2007
Monday, June 4, 2007
Is it just me or are there more kabayans in S'pore now?
I can't seem to shake off this suspicion that 1/3 of Manila's population is now in Singapore. Most everywhere I go now, a Filipino voice is never far away, so distinctive (to me) is it that it somehow floats above the din of passing human traffic. Its uncanny.
And I'm not talking about the usual gaggle of domestic helpers camped out at Lucky P every Sunday too. I'm talking groups and groups of kababayan it seems, out in the restos, shops, the neighbourhood groceries, the parks.
Cases in point: I went to buy some stuff from Watsons recently and two cashiers just happen to be kabayan.
Got a shirt from Lacoste, sales assistant was Pinay.
I call DBS at 10pm, and who answers? A rude Filipina.
I ask to speak to her manager, and yes, she's Filipina too.
I buy shoes for my godchildren at Robinson's Centrepoint and? You guess it, got a Filipina sales assistant there too.
Just last week, I sat down to have lunch at my company cafeteria and the table behind us was occupied by 4 young Pinoys, all new faces. I haven't heard of new Pinoy hires at work so my guess is that they all must be part of the outsourced team that mans our IT helpdesk.
Even in this condo where I live, it seems at least 2 units have been newly rented by young Filipinos who are either in the IT field or are students. Seems 3-4 of them share a flat. I was told this by a lady who I frequently share the lift with in the evenings when I come home. No wonder our poolside bbq area is now almost always booked every weekend! I always see a large group of laughing people there having a 'party' during Sundays. Inusyuso ko minsan. All Pinoys. I wasn't surprised too. Chances are very high that if you hear hearty laughter anywhere here, the group is bound to be Pinoy.
I mentioned to a Singapore colleague how weird it was to talk in Tagalog to a sales lady in Lacoste here and she exclaimed, 'Know what? I was going to tell you too that at my block in Sembawang, I've seen many Filipino families move in. I think many of them are in IT cos everyone totes a laptop bag.'
Hmm, interesting.
Anyway, let me just say Mahuhay! to all the newcomers. Need pointers from the oldies? Got some actually.
1) Soften the volume of your speaking voice
No joke folks, they speak much, much softer here. If you talk in your normal Phil volume, chances are, fellow Pinoys will be able to follow your story from across the restaurant, the office, the cinema, the bus, the MRT carriage.
But see, while we kabayans may smile about having inadvertently listened in to the loud narration of a countryman's antics, others may not find it friendly and polite. It can even be irritating in small spaces. So tone down that volume and reserve the extra large guffaws when you are in a private space.
(This reminds me of how I used to shush my Dad whenever he visited me in college. Without his realising it, he was speaking so loudly in normal conversation that it never failed to turn heads towards our direction. It's nothing more than regional differences in speaking really, but still ...)
2) Stop converting everything into Philippine pesos
The sooner you internalise that you are no longer in Manila, the better for you. Accept it, there is no way to buy bottled water or canned Coke at less than the S$0.70 (Php23) (at least) it commands at the stores here. Beer is S$10-12 in pubs. If you want it to be Php20 like in Manila, go take a plane ride to Manila.
And the smokes! It's S$12 a pack if I'm not mistaken. That's Php360! And for fun, it comes with gross pictures of the effects of smoking. Ew! Trust me, you don't want to see those pictures! But if you are weird that way and insist on seeing them, the pix are here.
For women, manicures and pedicures are at least $30 each; haircuts are at least $35; treatments, at least $80.
A full-body massage meanwhile is at least $85 and a 20-min chair massage for shoulders is $35.
That is the way the cookie crumbles.
3) Cultivate friendships outside of your Filipino connections
While I agree that making new -- and maintaning old -- Pinoy friendships in Singapore is very important, I encourage you to go out of your way to befriend locals too. Stop the regionalistic cocooning!
Learn about other people's ways, see how different and similar we are. Correct a stranger's wrong impressions about Filipinos if you must, like how we really aren't all mad for liking boiled duck embryo. (It's great with salt is all I can say.)
New friendships can only enrich your stay here. How best to get to know and understand the Singaporean pysche and heart than by jalan-jalaning around and going makan with them, right? And really, who better to learn and understand Singlish than from a local?
So, yah lah, must meet new frens mah.
4) Throw your racial stereotypes out the window
Racial stereotypes are often always mean, hurtful and untrue. It is a clutch utilised mainly to cut people up so they can then be labelled and accorded respect or not, depending on which pile one ends up on in someone's mind.
I understand the need of some to find order in the diversity of humanity around, but can we just be kinder in our labelling of people, pls?
Because surely not all Chinese are ____ (supply your own blanket statement here); not all Malays are _____; not all Indians are ________; not all Caucasians are _____.
And certainly, not all Filipinos are ____!
5) Have fun at work
Might as well, right? That job is going to require at least 40 hours of your time each week so you better have some fun doing it.
And I'm not talking about the usual gaggle of domestic helpers camped out at Lucky P every Sunday too. I'm talking groups and groups of kababayan it seems, out in the restos, shops, the neighbourhood groceries, the parks.
Cases in point: I went to buy some stuff from Watsons recently and two cashiers just happen to be kabayan.
Got a shirt from Lacoste, sales assistant was Pinay.
I call DBS at 10pm, and who answers? A rude Filipina.
I ask to speak to her manager, and yes, she's Filipina too.
I buy shoes for my godchildren at Robinson's Centrepoint and? You guess it, got a Filipina sales assistant there too.
Just last week, I sat down to have lunch at my company cafeteria and the table behind us was occupied by 4 young Pinoys, all new faces. I haven't heard of new Pinoy hires at work so my guess is that they all must be part of the outsourced team that mans our IT helpdesk.
Even in this condo where I live, it seems at least 2 units have been newly rented by young Filipinos who are either in the IT field or are students. Seems 3-4 of them share a flat. I was told this by a lady who I frequently share the lift with in the evenings when I come home. No wonder our poolside bbq area is now almost always booked every weekend! I always see a large group of laughing people there having a 'party' during Sundays. Inusyuso ko minsan. All Pinoys. I wasn't surprised too. Chances are very high that if you hear hearty laughter anywhere here, the group is bound to be Pinoy.
I mentioned to a Singapore colleague how weird it was to talk in Tagalog to a sales lady in Lacoste here and she exclaimed, 'Know what? I was going to tell you too that at my block in Sembawang, I've seen many Filipino families move in. I think many of them are in IT cos everyone totes a laptop bag.'
Hmm, interesting.
Anyway, let me just say Mahuhay! to all the newcomers. Need pointers from the oldies? Got some actually.
1) Soften the volume of your speaking voice
No joke folks, they speak much, much softer here. If you talk in your normal Phil volume, chances are, fellow Pinoys will be able to follow your story from across the restaurant, the office, the cinema, the bus, the MRT carriage.
But see, while we kabayans may smile about having inadvertently listened in to the loud narration of a countryman's antics, others may not find it friendly and polite. It can even be irritating in small spaces. So tone down that volume and reserve the extra large guffaws when you are in a private space.
(This reminds me of how I used to shush my Dad whenever he visited me in college. Without his realising it, he was speaking so loudly in normal conversation that it never failed to turn heads towards our direction. It's nothing more than regional differences in speaking really, but still ...)
2) Stop converting everything into Philippine pesos
The sooner you internalise that you are no longer in Manila, the better for you. Accept it, there is no way to buy bottled water or canned Coke at less than the S$0.70 (Php23) (at least) it commands at the stores here. Beer is S$10-12 in pubs. If you want it to be Php20 like in Manila, go take a plane ride to Manila.
And the smokes! It's S$12 a pack if I'm not mistaken. That's Php360! And for fun, it comes with gross pictures of the effects of smoking. Ew! Trust me, you don't want to see those pictures! But if you are weird that way and insist on seeing them, the pix are here.
For women, manicures and pedicures are at least $30 each; haircuts are at least $35; treatments, at least $80.
A full-body massage meanwhile is at least $85 and a 20-min chair massage for shoulders is $35.
That is the way the cookie crumbles.
3) Cultivate friendships outside of your Filipino connections
While I agree that making new -- and maintaning old -- Pinoy friendships in Singapore is very important, I encourage you to go out of your way to befriend locals too. Stop the regionalistic cocooning!
Learn about other people's ways, see how different and similar we are. Correct a stranger's wrong impressions about Filipinos if you must, like how we really aren't all mad for liking boiled duck embryo. (It's great with salt is all I can say.)
New friendships can only enrich your stay here. How best to get to know and understand the Singaporean pysche and heart than by jalan-jalaning around and going makan with them, right? And really, who better to learn and understand Singlish than from a local?
So, yah lah, must meet new frens mah.
4) Throw your racial stereotypes out the window
Racial stereotypes are often always mean, hurtful and untrue. It is a clutch utilised mainly to cut people up so they can then be labelled and accorded respect or not, depending on which pile one ends up on in someone's mind.
I understand the need of some to find order in the diversity of humanity around, but can we just be kinder in our labelling of people, pls?
Because surely not all Chinese are ____ (supply your own blanket statement here); not all Malays are _____; not all Indians are ________; not all Caucasians are _____.
And certainly, not all Filipinos are ____!
5) Have fun at work
Might as well, right? That job is going to require at least 40 hours of your time each week so you better have some fun doing it.
Tuesday, March 27, 2007
Bag education of the unwilling
I just had to chuckle after my hubbs narrated to me the short story coming right up that obviously just goes to show how my incessant bag talk has been permeating into his subconscious unwittingly.
Get this -- he actually asked a colleague if the 'Spy' bag she was carrying was real!!!
Yes, I agree, he needs to be more tactful next time but he said he just wanted to know, so he asked. Haha! But whatever, he actually noticed a bag and recognized it as a Fendi Spy design!
I can't begin to tell you how I whooped like mad at home when he told me this story. It's incredible, given how he always rolls his eyes when I start my bag chatter. And all the while, he was actually listening! Awww!
Anyway, the colleague answered that she didn't think her bag was authentic but used it anyway cos it was a gift from someone. And of course she asked him back how come he even knows about Spy bags.
His answer: Well, I almost bought one for my wife! (He says 'almost' cos I went for the Miu Miu Coffer instead and saved him a pretty amount as a result!)
Good eye there, dear! Now lets get you to identify a Birken! ;-)
Just in case you were wondering, this is how a Fendi Spy handbag looks like:
Get this -- he actually asked a colleague if the 'Spy' bag she was carrying was real!!!
Yes, I agree, he needs to be more tactful next time but he said he just wanted to know, so he asked. Haha! But whatever, he actually noticed a bag and recognized it as a Fendi Spy design!
I can't begin to tell you how I whooped like mad at home when he told me this story. It's incredible, given how he always rolls his eyes when I start my bag chatter. And all the while, he was actually listening! Awww!
Anyway, the colleague answered that she didn't think her bag was authentic but used it anyway cos it was a gift from someone. And of course she asked him back how come he even knows about Spy bags.
His answer: Well, I almost bought one for my wife! (He says 'almost' cos I went for the Miu Miu Coffer instead and saved him a pretty amount as a result!)
Good eye there, dear! Now lets get you to identify a Birken! ;-)
Just in case you were wondering, this is how a Fendi Spy handbag looks like:
Friday, March 9, 2007
NotCanada.com
I just got a link to the above website and well, it's been a fascinating/dreadful read so far. It's a site that basically discourages would-be immigrants from choosing Canada as a place of destination, citing racism and a lack of appropriate jobs for highly skilled, new citizens as the top drawbacks, among others.
It also says that as 'the Government of Canada and Canadian immigration lawyers don't accurately reflect the reality of the country', then the site has 'decided to provide an accurate view of the problems and issues that exist in Canada for immigrants'.
If you know of anyone mulling prospects of moving permanently to Canada (quite a huge group seeing as how every adult Filipino, I think, can count at least one person in his immediate circle who is currently thinking of hightailing it to Canada), get them to check out the site so they know what they may be up against.
NotCanada.com
It also says that as 'the Government of Canada and Canadian immigration lawyers don't accurately reflect the reality of the country', then the site has 'decided to provide an accurate view of the problems and issues that exist in Canada for immigrants'.
If you know of anyone mulling prospects of moving permanently to Canada (quite a huge group seeing as how every adult Filipino, I think, can count at least one person in his immediate circle who is currently thinking of hightailing it to Canada), get them to check out the site so they know what they may be up against.
NotCanada.com
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